friendship is important to me

11.51pm

apologies for not writing. as i mentioned in my previous blog, i did say i'll be erratic with my blogs and that i'll be busy and i was. i am. i was clearing up my stuff, doing some spring cleaning, helping my parents out with the house chores, wrapping presents, meeting up with cousins for coffee and friends for dinners. yes, busy me.

this evening, i met up with some of my good friends, whom i've known for over a decade. we met when we were all working together in advertising and still kept in touch, even tho each went separate ways. i mean that's what friendship is all about isnt it? altho we hardly get to see each other, but we make it a point to at least meet up once a year especially during xmas time so that we can exchange gifts and to catch up on each others lives, gossip and have a laugh or two. theres just so much to talk about and not enough time. when you throw 5 women together, that is what will happen. best of times i must say.

so, guys if you are reading this, dont fret, we dont always talk about you ie our husbands or boyfriends. we gals have better things to talk about. hahahaha....trust me. tonite our main topic of discussion was about maids and pets!! yup..there you go :)

you know, in some of our friendships, you dont always have to meet up in order to be good friends. you see, i hardly get to see these friends of mine but whenever we do get a chance, its like as if we were never apart at all. and if we didnt have to go back home, we would have sat there all night at the restaurant and chatted away. now thats what i call a solid friendship. do you have these kind of friends? if so, you should cherrish them. coz its not everyday you will or can find such friends.

hey, im not talking about those fair weathered ones nor ones that come and go in your life or is there only in your good times not your bad. those you can keep in the closet and forget about them. for me, i take my friendship seriously because without them, i think i would just go mad.

there must be a reason as to why our friendship has lasted this long. its because we all can get along like a house on fire. even tho some are married and have kids and some are still single, but so what? we dont judge. we are on the same wavelength, the same page. thats the beauty our friendship. and then theres honesty too. we trust each other wholeheartedly. there's no ill feelings or jealously or envy between each other. we know where we stand in each others lives. and most importantly, respecting one another. thats the way it should be and will be, always.


ok its getting late here. im knackered.


ttfn

12.22am